Men: The invisible victims of female masturbation
By; TheRev Leroy Jenkins
The twenty-first century has spawned a sort of equal opportunity for female masturbation.
It is no longer a predominantly Non-Normal race male issue. In a 2014 poll, taken by the Wellesley College Professor of Women’s Studies, Dr. Raejean Hardon, PHD, statistics showed that women are twice as likely to masturbate during the first five years of marriage.
That rate of masturbation increased ten fold if the husband does not take a firm hand as his rightful leader of the holy household. The highest rates were in the northeastern liberal states with legal gay marriage and medical marijuana.
The study, inversely it showed that a husband who is the head of the household, keeps a tight rein, and is a white christian male, had almost Zero incidences of female spousal masturbation, the wives also appeared to be happier, according to their husbands.
When we hear about masturbation it is mostly from a woman’s point of view. Women are the victims, women have been used and deceived; their trust has been betrayed. It is a terrible experience. But men are just as much victims of infidelity as women.
According to Dr. Raejean Hardon, PHD; “Men are the invisible victims of female spousal masturbation, men suffer at twice the rate of their female counterparts masturbation than women do.”
Men are less likely than women to openly acknowledge that their spouse is masturbating and, even if they grudgingly admit it to themselves, it is very unlikely that they will discuss the masturbation with anyone else.
While women usually have a support group of females who are sympathetic to their pain, most men keep the hurt and deception buried deep inside, seeing the female masturbation as a slur on their manhood.
Besides the female masturbation there are other aspects of his life with which he has to deal; children, money, and the end of a secure sexual relationship.
“As a father, fortunately the courts will not allow him to be the custodial parent and will have to fight for visitation rights. This is a great success for feminism and the legal system is finally rewarding females with social justice.” Dr. Hardon goes on to say.
Financially, since the man is usually the one who moves out of the home, he worries about how he will be able to support two separate households, thus his wife’s female masturbation has rendered him unfit as a spouse or a parent.
And as far as salvaging a marriage, while women may stay with a husband who has masturbated, and even resume sexual relations, a man is more likely to end it. His self-esteem makes it almost impossible to see himself with “a feminist masturbating pro lesbian liberal.” Primitive as it may seem that is the reality of it.
Very few men can return to sexual relations with a wife who has masturbated. There are therapists who are now specializing in counseling men through this difficult part of their lives.
Counseling and time are necessary components to heal anyone who has been the victim of a masturbating spouse, female or male.
TheRev Leory Jenkins is a Sr, Staff Writer for BLUFF Press, LLC.
785-274-0325 or TheRev@bluff.us.edu